Cleaning Out My Closet Has Changed My Life

Ok – so I know this isn’t exactly ‘medical’ or even health related – but then, it seems that staying sane in a ridiculously insane world counts a little bit, right?  Here’s the back story:  I’ve been in a little bit of a rut lately and lots of chaos is happening in my life. The second edition of my book is getting closer to completion, I’m doing a kitchen remodel (god save me), my car is wheezing it’s last breaths and forcing me to compare cars online (I’d rather eat all the dirt in my garden.) In short, life is happening and the only thing that’s predictable is the unpredictability.

One of my dearest friends was telling me about a friend of hers who hired a style consultant to go through their closet and streamline and how much it’s made her life easier.  A style consultant would be a ridiculous extravagance in my life right now, but cleaning out the closet sounded like the perfect thing!  Honestly I wasn’t expecting much, but it’s a great thing that I could do and still feel productive, even though I was obviously avoiding the 20 things I should have been doing at that time.  As it turns out it was TOTALLY worth it.

HAND EMBROIDERED CLOTHES © Ashish Maurya | Dreamstime.com

Here’s what I did:

  1. Set aside my absolutely can’t-live-without favorites and if anything needs mending or attention put it on a pile of things that need to have something done to them (i.e. button sewn back on, hem repaired, etc…)
  2. Try on the different pieces in your closet and look at yourself in them with new eyes.  Then ask these questions:
  • Does it flatter your body shape? If no, then put it in the goodwill pile. No matter how fabulous or expensive or wonderful it is, if it doesn’t suit you then it has to go.
  • Is it comfortable to wear?  If it isn’t then goodwill it! If you feel uncomfortable you also don’t look right.  Just let it go.
  • Do you always have to adjust it to make it stay in place? That’s the worst, most annoying thing ever.  Goodwill!
  • Have you worn it in the last year? If not, then chances are you’re not going to.  Sure – probably you’ve got a cocktail dress or a tuxedo that might stay even though you haven’t worn it in a year, but if it’s just a shirt then goodwill it.
  • Has it been waiting for a repair for ages? You know the thing in the back of your closet that needs a button?  Yeah.  Unless it’s a can’t-live-without then chuck it.
  • Does it go with anything else in your closet?  If you’re anything like me you have that adorable skirt that you’ve never worn because nothing really goes with it.  Goodwill baby.
  • Are you still waiting to squeeze back into it?  Look – if it’s been more than 5 years since you’ve been that size then let it go.  I’m not saying you won’t be that size again, but by the time you are you’re not going to want to wear that. I promise.  Someone at goodwill needs it more than you.
  • Do you have another one almost exactly like it?  If you do then pick your favorite and ditch the other one.
  • Is it the ‘guilt’ shirt?  You know the one I mean – The one with the designer label that you bought on sale because it was on sale (but not really your style) and you’ve never worn it but occasionally you pull it out just to admire it?  Um… Yeah. I had a couple of these and some lucky person at goodwill just got them this morning.

Now we start on the shoes:

  • Do they pinch, rub, cause blisters, create foot aches or otherwise bite in some unpleasant way?  Life is too damn short for that.
  • Are they even your size?  My feet have grown as an adult but I was hanging on to those expensive boots, just in case they decided to shrink again.  It doesn’t seem to be happening.
  • Have you worn them in a year?  Sure – they were great at that fabulous party in 1992.  So were lots of things.
  • Do they match anything you own? I had the inexplicable green-grey pair.  Totally great shoes that match absolutely nothing in my closet. Goodwill pile!

For me that got rid of probably a quarter of my clothing and shoes and also allowed me to rediscover some hidden treasures that were buried under things I never moved (how sad is that?) Now the hard part…  Look at everything that’s left and for every 5 similar things take out your least favorite.  So fore every 5 pairs of dark slacks, one of them should go.  Likewise for every 5 blouses, every 5 tank tops, every 5 t-shirts, every 5 pairs of jeans.  Seriously how many do you think you need?  This part is harder, but SO worth it.

Now you’re left with pieces that fit you perfectly, look great, match other things and are comfortable to wear.  Best of all, there is breathing room in your closet.  Actual air space.  This means your choices when you get up in the morning are so much more simple – everything is already fabulous, you just have to put it on.  Every choice you make no matter how simple or small or meaningless (like picking out your outfit) adds a burden of stress to your day.  The more of those choices you can make easier, the less stress you have to endure.  Plus you can release all of the guilt you’ve been carrying for not wearing that thing you got on sale, or for not mending that button or whatever.  Just let it go and move on with your newer, sleeker, more fabulous wardrobe.

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Searching for Happiness? Try Something New

Do you ever have those days when you realize that you did exactly the same thing as you did the day before? And the day before that?  Like your whole life is a cycle of get up, get the kids to school, get to work, rush home, do homework, get the kids ready for bed, collapse and repeat? Yeah – me too.  And that is a terrifying and depressing place to be simply because there’s no *life* in your life, there’s no joy, there’s nothing that’s new.  And that’s the crux of the issue – the lack of newness.

Joe Robinson wrote a great book recently called Don’t Miss Your Life exploring the link between boredom and depression or anxiety, and between newness and joy. Joe asserts that your brain is essentially hard-wired to both resist newness (keeping you safe – just like always) and to love it and reward you for it.

Your brain develops connections between neurons in response to new experiences and those connections degrade and disappear when there is no novelty in your life.  So actively learning something new helps strengthen the connections between your nerves and create new ones – new connections and new neural networks.  If you’re not following that means that newness helps your brain to grow and change and that’s a big deal!  Not only that, but your brain releases dopamine, your “reward” neurotransmitter even when you’re just expecting to do something new and not yet doing that new thing.  This is called an “exploration bonus” and basically means that your brain rewards you for novelty.

Don't worry - it doesn't have to be quite *this* new... PARACHUTE WITH MAN © Kopitoto | Dreamstime.com

The other thing the book points out is that warring with this reward for newness, is your tried and true desire for safety.  Your brain is wired to stay safe – to eliminate potential threat and to evaluate every new behavior in terms of how threatening it might be. An area of your brain, called the amygdala, views the unknown as “scary” and often makes you overestimate the negatives and underestimate the positives of this new activity – giving you the impression that your same old routine is pretty darn good. But don’t listen! You need newness to bring joy and growth to your life and the only way to make that happen is to overcome your fear.

Letting Go of Your Fear and Embracing the New:

Like everything else, there are some ways to make this easy for yourself.

  1. Start Simple – Instead of jumping right into the newness of something really scary, like say bullfighting or extreme sports, try a baby-step new instead.  What if instead of going to Starbucks like always you go to that funky little independent coffee shop?  You’re still getting coffee, you’re doing the same thing – it’s just a little location change. Even something as simple as this is ‘new.’
  2. Do Something You Used To Love – Probably there were a bunch of things you loved to do as a kid, but haven’t done in a while.  Why not try one of those again? They’re not exactly new, but they’re new enough to be less-threatening. Pick up that guitar, those art supplies or the baseball bat.  Give it another shot.
  3. Make  a Newness Goal – How about one little new thing every month? Or this year you’re going to learn something totally new, like a language or pottery or flamanco dancing or skiing.  How about flying to one random place every year? Whatever your newness goal, make it a priority in your life.
  4. Don’t Put Performance Pressure on Yourself – Do this new thing purely to enjoy it.  It doesn’t matter if you become fluent in that language or if your pottery is good enough to sell – just do it for the pure enjoyment.
  5. Play Around – If you’re like me there are about 4000 things you can think of that might be fun, and that is a bit overwhelming so dabble.  Try a tiny bit of something before you commit to a whole class or expensive equipment.  Just give a few things a brief try and see what really makes you happy.
  6. Scared? Play the ‘And Then’ game – This is one of my favorites (and not just for the movie reference).  If your brain is tormenting you with all the things that could go wrong then it’s time for ‘and then…’ Say you’ve decided to join a pottery class but your safety-brain tries to scare you. “You’ll be horrible and make ugly pots!” Just ask: “and then?” Well, then your safety brain has to come up with something really scary “You’ll feel foolish” and so you ask “and then?” There are very few situations that actually reduce to something dangerous – it’s mostly just excuses to not do things from your safety brain. Generally the last point you get to is “and then…. ?” Because it’s nothing that matters.

So start today – take a baby step towards novelty and push those happy buttons in your brain because frankly, I don’t know anyone who couldn’t use some good happy-button pushing.

And Here’s the Kindle Edition for the digital age…

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Chicken Soup Really Is the Best Cure

In light of my actually having to take a sick day, I thought you might like to know my secret weapon against colds and the flu, and it’s actually not-so-secret. I’m pretty sure your mom told you about this one – because it’s home made chicken soup. Turns out your mom was right (but don’t tell her, you’ll never hear the end of it).  The best thing to help when you have an upper respiratory tract infection like a cold or flu really is chicken soup.

It may sound crazy but there is plenty of research out there showing just how effective chicken soup really is.  One of my favorite articles, published in the journal CHEST by Barbara Rennard et. al. says:

The present study, therefore, suggests that chicken soup may contain a number of substances with beneficial medicinal activity. A mild anti-inflammatory effect could be one mechanism by which the soup could result in the mitigation of symptomatic upper respiratory tract infections.

So how did I spend my sick day?  In bed reading with a pot of Chicken stock cooking on the stove.  Here’s how to make your own chicken soup because guess what?  The studies say homemade really is most effective (I’m not kidding – they really do!)

Making Your Own Chicken Stock:

  1. Save all of the chicken bones from your family’s meals in a bag in the freezer.  Along with the chicken bones, save vegetable pieces that can’t be used but are still good – things like mushroom stalks, the stems of parsley and cilantro, the leafy tops of your celery, the end of the asparagus that you snap off before you cook them, the woody parts of the broccoli stem, and the skins from your onions.  Any type of vegetable can be used because you’re not eating these, you’re just boiling them in the soup stock.
  2. When you’re making your stock put the entire contents of this freezer bag into 1 gallon of water in a big pot and set the stove to high to boil for 5 minutes.
  3. Turn the heat all the way low, cover and simmer for 3-4 hours.
  4. Strain the stock into another pot through a colander and throw out all the stuff that’s left in the colander – it’s just bones and left-over veggie pieces.
  5. Taste your stock and see what it needs – usually it just needs some salt.
  6. Ta-Da! You have your own home-made yummy miracle cure.
  7. If you’re just starting out and you don’t have your freezer bag already full of random bits and pieces you can start a batch of stock with chicken wings or chicken thighs from the grocery store.  Use about 5-6 wings or 3-4 thighs per gallon of water.  If you’re starting this way then add 1/2 an onion coarsely chopped with the skin and all, 2 celery stalks, 2 carrots and any odds and ends of vegetables that you have around. I suggest adding a few mushrooms for a richer flavor. Cook it all the same way and strain out the chicken pieces just the same.  You may be able to use some of the meat from the bones in the soup itself, so after you strain it then pick out the chicken pieces and cut the meat off of them into the stock.

Making Chicken Stock into Chicken Soup:

The first thing you’ll notice is that home-made chicken stock is a whole different beast than store-bought chicken stock.  It’s rich and flavorful and ridiculously yummy by itself.  But, if you want to make it into a soup with some body to it then we can add some goodies.  Here’s my favorite. You’ll need:

  1. 4 chicken thighs
  2. 1 cup pearl barley (can use rice or another grain if you’re not a fan of barley)
  3. 3-4 stalks celery
  4. 2 carrots
  5. 1 bunch green onions
  6. 1/2 bunch parsley or 1 bunch cilantro (whichever you prefer)
  7. 1 cup mushrooms

Add the barley (or whatever grain) to the stock that you already made and bring it to a low boil.  Finely chop all of your veggies and dump them into the stock.  Let it cook for about half an hour or until the barley/grain is tender.

And you just made the best chicken soup you’ll ever eat.  Simple! The best part about this is that aside from chopping veggies in the last step, you get to lay in bed or on the couch while all of this is happening.  It’s mostly just hanging out cooking without you.

Enjoy!

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Keep Your Breasts Healthy Naturally

In light of breast cancer awareness month I’d like to talk a little bit about keeping your girls healthy and happy and cancer-free. The fact is that there are lots of simple things you can do to stay healthy and help prevent breast cancer.  Simple changes can really add up – here are some places to start, taken from my book: DIY Health: For Women.

Natural Ways To Help Prevent Breast Cancer:

  1. Manage your estrogens – Make sure you are doing the things we’ve talked about to keep your estrogens under control and to keep them at a safe level.  Don’t forget the basics like fiber and exercise that we talked about here – they go a long way.
  2. Don’t take extra estrogens if you’re high risk – if you have genetic risk or a family history of breast cancer than just don’t use birth control or HRT that adds estrogens into your system.  That means no birth control pills, no implants, no shots, no patch.  If you really need a birth control method that isn’t condoms, then consider an IUD – the Mirena IUD actually secretes a small amount of progesterone and so would be very balancing for a woman who normally has high estrogen.  The copper IUD lasts longer (about 10 years for one IUD) but can cause heavy bleeding.  Talk with your doctor to find a solution that is right for you.
  3. Help your Breast tissue – if you have dense breasts or are fibrocystic, start with iodine therapy and GLA (the good fats from evening primrose oil or borage oil).  It’s really important to check with your doctor if you have thyroid problems before you start taking iodine.  It should only take 3-4 months for your breast tissue to change and soften.  After that you can just take iodine every now and then to maintain.
  4. Limit the estrogenic chemicals in your life – cut out the phthalates, the cleaning products, the pesticides and herbicides.  All of these chemicals mimic estrogen in your body and so have the same potential cancer causing effects. Switch to organic when you can, especially in milk, dairy and eggs. If you’re high-risk then this is especially important but I believe every woman should protect herself and her children.
  5. Exercise – how many times do I need to say it?
  6. Breast self-exams – this is really just to make sure that no lumps pop up quickly – use circular motions to feel the whole area of breast tissue, including under your arms on both sides.  Look for lumps or knots.  Also make sure you look at your breasts in the mirror – dimpling, puckering or inverted nipples can indicate a problem – especially if it starts suddenly.  Also watch for sores or ‘bug bites’ that don’t go away – it is much more rare but there is a form of breast cancer called inflammatory breast cancer that just looks like a sore or an itchy rash-like spot on the breast that doesn’t heal.
  7. Lose Weight – I know. I make it sound so simple.  Remember the bottom line is that you need to use more calories than you eat.  Every woman is different in the weight loss department, but eliminating your food allergies will be a tremendous help.
  8. Eat your veggies and cut down on the meats – a more plant-based diet helps to reduce your risk and protect your body from many types of cancers, including breast.
  9. Screening – mammograms are suggested for women over 40 and although there is some radiation exposure they also help with early detection so talk with your doctor about what is right for you.  For women who are truly high risk having a thermogram, or thermal imaging, of the breasts done yearly can be extremely helpful.  Thermal imaging will show problem areas far before you would be able to feel a lump or find anything on a mammogram, although if a spot shows up you will still need to get a mammogram to pinpoint the exact location.  Thermal imaging essentially acts as an early warning system that shows you what to watch.  It also gives you the opportunity to take more aggressive steps if something does show up to prevent it from growing into cancer.

Take care of your breasts ladies – it’s incredibly important.  These days it seems like everyone knows and loves someone who has been touched by breast cancer. We all have mothers or aunts or sisters or friends who have faced this beast, but together we can help to protect ourselves and our loved ones.  Make sure your friends know how to take care of themselves, raise your children doing breast self-exams and practicing good eating habits.  Love your breasts ladies, it will help to keep you healthy.

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Potato Chip Diet?

This is by far the weirdest diet tip I’ve ever heard. And I do mean EVER.  I spent the weekend at a conference organized by our State association, the TXANP (Texas Association of Naturopathic Physicians) and our topic was environmental medicine.  Environmental medicine is essentially a study of the various toxins in the environment (depressing) and how we can get rid of them. One tip, in a conference full of great information, stands out. Mostly because it involves junk food.

Detoxify your fat with 7 potato chips a day. What???

Does anyone else remember the fake oil in fried food that lets you eat fried junk food – potato chips mostly – but not absorb any of the fats?  I mostly remember it because the unfortunate side effect was nothing short of ‘anal leakage,’ which is terrifyingly vivid and  enough to earn Saturday Night Live notoriety.  Well, apparently now we have a valid use for this artificial fat (The trade name is Olestra) and a reason to eat fat-free potato chips (but only 7 per day, because god knows you don’t want the whole anal leakage thing).

Apparently by eating a small amount of this artificial fat, you are actually giving your body an unlikely route to detox.  Not only that, it helps you to detox some particularly hard to reach toxins.  Here’s how it works:

  1. When your body really can’t deal with a toxin, it stores it somewhere where it won’t do too much harm.  If that toxin is water soluble it’s stored in places like your bones, and if it’s a fat soluble toxin then you just pack it away in your fat cells.  Fat soluble toxins include dioxin, PCBs, formaldehyde, plastics and pesticides.
  2. Because your body can’t deal with it that toxin just sits there and detoxes incredibly slowly – usually over many many years.  While that fat is toxic it is incredibly hard for your body to burn, simply because it’s dangerous.  If your body uses the fat from that fat cell then it has to deal with the toxins, so your body avoids using that fat – this means weight loss is harder.
  3. Part of the reason your body can’t burn that fat is because it’s hard to eliminate fats in your digestive tract because we’re thrifty – even if we do get those toxic fats out, our thrifty hoarder genes pull them right back in because they might come in handy.  This is where the artificial fat comes in.
  4. The reason this artificial fat is “fat-free” is because it’s totally undigestible, so it stays in your digestive tract after you’ve eaten your 7 fat-free potato chips.  That means that your body can dump those toxins out of long-term storage in your fat cells and into a new form of storage, which is the artificial oils from the no-fat chips.
  5. Essentially, your body gets to transfer toxins from inside your fat cells, to the fats traveling through your digestive tract, which means that suddenly your body can start burning the fat in your fat cells like it’s supposed to because the fat in your cells isn’t toxic anymore.  Woohoo!

So, although I wouldn’t normally suggest putting fat-free potato chips anywhere near your mouth, this is forcing me to revise my thinking.  Now – I don’t want to give you the impression that I’m condoning these as a food source, they’re not food.  There’s nothing about them that’s food.  They may be, however, a simple solution to a problem that is notoriously difficult to solve.  Simply taking 7 fat-free potato chips per day could give your body the perfect tool to start pulling the toxins out of your fat, and that is completely worth it.

Here’s why this is so great:

  • You’ll lose weight – once you get rid of those toxins your body can burn fat far more normally and weight will start coming off the way it should.
  • You’ll feel better – getting rid of toxins always does that.
  • You’ll avoid disease – this gets rid of the toxins that are implicated in conditions like breast cancer, thyroid disease and diabetes and therefore help yourself to avoid those conditions.  Bonus!
  • It’s cheap – detox can be a ridiculously expensive proposition, and this makes it pretty darn cheap.  At least for the fat soluble part.
  • It’s asy – it doesn’t get much easier than eating 7 fat-free potato chips per day.  I mean really.

Here are some steps you can take to make the detoxification even more effective:

  1. Drink your water -  The fat-free chips will help to detoxify the fat soluble toxins, but they’re not going to help with the water soluble ones, you need water for that. Make sure you’re getting filtered water (reverse osmosis is best) so that you’re not putting more toxins back in.
  2. Eat your fiber -  As you should know by now, I’m crazy about fiber.  Fiber is another thing that can stay in your digestive tract and bind to toxins, so why not attack your toxic monster with artificial fat and fiber?  It won’t stand a chance.
  3. Sweat -  I don’t care how you do it, but do it.  Think saunas, steam rooms, hot yoga, sweat lodges or just that much exercise.  We detoxify through our sweat as well as our digestion and urine so sweating helps you to get toxins out of your surface tissues.
  4. Take a good multivitamin -  Detox is a lot of work for your body and you need lots of vitamins and minerals to do it so plan on taking a good multi-vitamin.  Look for something in a capsule (not a tablet – those are too hard for your body to digest).  In general I like multi’s from Thorne Research or ITI.
  5. Get your exercise – The more you circulate and send blood to all of your cells, the more quickly your body can find and eliminate toxins from everywhere.  Detoxification takes time, none of this will happen overnight, but it will happen much more quickly if you’re getting your blood pumping.
  6. Castor oil – Castor oil is a great detoxifier that is so underused.  I love castor oil.  Just slather some on your skin – especially over your liver area (right side of your belly just under your rib cage), your breasts, and your fatty tissues – put on some old pj’s that you don’t care about (it’s oily so it will stain whatever you’re wearing), and go to bed like that.  It absorbs overnight and helps your body to detox through your lymph system.  I wrote a whole post about castor oil if you want to learn more.

Of course this isn’t a complete detox protocol, but it’s a really easy way to make a great start on your own.  To think something as simple (and as unlikely) as fat-free potato chips can do so much good! Just remember moderation because I’m guessing anal leakage really makes your day worse.

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Pumpkin Smoothie – Best Fall Breakfast Ever

Ok – so I’m all about health food that tastes like dessert – in this case: pumpkin pie.  In the fall, it doesn’t get much better than pumpkin pie – especially when I can have it for breakfast and still feel like I’m doing great thing for my body.  It’s a win-win.  Here’s the recipe for my latest obsession:

Ridiculously Awesome Pumpkin Pie Smoothie

In your blender mix the heck out of:

  • 1 banana
  • 1/2 cup baked pumpkin (cubes) or 1/2 cup 100% pumpkin puree from a can
  • 1 scoop vanilla protein powder (my favorite is vanilla glycemic foundation from Ortho Molecular products)
  • 1 cup vanilla almond milk
  • 2 carrots (if you have a vita mix or juicing blender) or 1/4 cup carrot juice
  • 1/4 to 1/2 tsp pumpkin pie spice
  • Maybe some extra water if it’s too thick

Pumpkin!

This smoothie is super orange, packed with antioxidants and TASTES LIKE PUMPKIN PIE!! Here are the benefits:

  • High protein
  • High fiber (if you use this protein powder.  If you’re using another protein powder that doesn’t have fiber in it I suggest adding a scoop of fiber powder, unflavored, that mixes clear with water – the pumpkin and carrots also have some fiber, but I think it’s great to have more fiber in the morning)
  • Low sugar/carbohydrate
  • Wheat, gluten, dairy and soy free
  • High in carotenoids – the antioxidants in the Vitamin A family that give pumpkins and carrots their orange color.  These are great for skin health, eye health and overall anti-aging.
  • Blood sugar controlling cinnamon (from the pumpkin pie spice) that helps to regulate your sugar processing all morning
  • Potassium
  • 3 of your fruit and veggie servings – and it’s not even noon yet!

Seriously I’ve been living off of these this fall and they’re only getting better. This addiction might last through Christmas…

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The Fastest Way to Drop 5 Pounds

So, I know it’s kind of a cheat, but if you really need to fit into that dress by next week, or those suit pants that you’re having trouble zipping right now, there is a quick and easy way.  This isn’t a great long-term weight loss program for most people, but in the short term it will get you uber-quick results. God knows there are times in life where that matters.

Clearly she made it into her jeans... Weight Loss © Geotrac | Dreamstime.com

Here’s the plan:

  1. Cut out grains -  This means cut out the breads, potatoes, pastas, cookies, chips, crackers, corn, rice and everything made with those things. If you’re a burger kind of person for lunches then do the meat with no bun (and no fries). And yes, I know potatoes aren’t actually a grain, but work with me here – I’m trying to get you into those jeans.
  2. Increase your water intake – At least 10 eight ounce glasses daily.  Set an alarm on your phone – it helps.  Just do one glass an hour and you’re totally good.
  3. Sleep – Sleep is when your body loses it’s weight and if you’re not getting it then it’s going to show in your waistline.  If you need to drop weight quickly then this is the way to do it. If you normally have trouble sleeping then melatonin is a safe place to start.  Most people notice a difference with 3 mg, but if you don’t it’s safe up to 10 mg at bedtime.

That’s it!

I get that for most people being 100% grain-free isn’t the lifestyle they want long-term, but it’s totally worth it if it gets you looking fabulous in that wedding dress, bikini, business suit or on the surf board. This isn’t great long-term because we’re not talking at all about balanced nutrition or healthy calories or any of that – this is just a quick fix for that time when 5 pounds REALLY matters.

Here are some tips to make it easier:

  • Think eggs or Greek yoghurt with fruit for breakfast. Protein smoothie will work too.
  • If you’re normally a sandwich person for lunch try making the same sandwich, but as a lettuce wrap (just use big pieces of lettuce instead of bread and either roll it up like a burrito or sandwich it like, well, a sandwich.
  • High-protein prepared salads are a great lunch option.  Consider egg salad, tuna salad, chicken salad.  All great options – no bread required.  Add an apple to that and you’re done.
  • For dinner thing meat + veggies.  Keep it simple – that’s always the best way.
  • If you want longer term weight loss you can use this for a week as a kick-start to see some weight fall off quickly, then transition to a healthy, low carb diet that isn’t quite so restrictive (but keep doing water and sleep – that makes every weight loss quicker).  For more ideas about long-term weight loss check this post from January.
  • Seriously set a phone alarm to go off every hour between 8 am and 6 pm and every time it beeps at you, have a glass of water.  Simple!  And not so close to bed that you’re up all night going to the bathroom (but you will spend more day time than usual in the bathroom – just think of it as the junk that was stored in your fat finally getting a chance to leave your body).
  • Keep it short-term.  Believe me, you can be AWESOME at this for a week!
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Cleaning Your Face With Oil – Thanks Crunchy Betty!

Ok, so I know we’ve been talking about cooking oils and this is kind of a tangent, but I’ve only just discovered it and it’s the best thing ever.  A great friend of mine from Santa Fe (the same one responsible for the tooth soap) sent me a link from Crunchy Betty’s blog about Oil Cleansing and I’m always a sucker for new things.

Basically the theory is that applying a cleansing oil to your face dissolves the bad/dirty oils that are already there and when you take off the extra good oil, you also take off the bad oil.  Still – it took some bravery to slather oil all over my face, let me tell you.  I picked a day to try it when I would have a few days without any major social events scheduled just in case my face turned into one giant zit.

Not only did my face not turn into a zit-scape, my skin and lips LOVE this treatment.  It felt great to do, like a little luxury facial, and my skin is the softest it’s ever been.  Not only that but the little weird inflamed spots that I normally have to fight to keep under control – the ones that aren’t quite zits, but are suspiciously red and look like they *might* become zits – those are mysteriously gone.  No muss, no fuss, just gone.  So far I’ve done it every night this week and my skin just keeps getting better.  Not only that, I look forward to washing my face – and that isn’t something I could ever say before.  I LOVE THIS!

Skin that youthfull - she must be oil cleansing! GIRL CLEANING FACE © Vladimir Mucibabic | Dreamstime.com

How To Oil Cleanse Your Skin

  1. Pull your hair back from your face with a hairband – your skin loves the oil, but if you get it in your hair there is nothing that will fix that but a shower.
  2. Turn on the tap with hot water – as hot as your skin will tolerate (we’re turning it on here so it has time to warm up).
  3. Choose your oil blend (we’ll talk oil blends in a minute – it’s really fun) and pour about a dime sized amount in your palm.
  4. Use your fingertips to gently smooth the oil over your face and massage lightly for 2 minutes- enjoy this part, it feels great!
  5. Run a wash cloth under the tap with water as hot as you can stand it – the heat helps to lift the oil from your skin more easily.
  6. Gently wipe your face with the hot washcloth, and just see how gorgeous, soft and radiant your skin is!
  7. Chances are that if you’re like me you can probably skip the night creams etc… when you do this before bed – your skin doesn’t need anything else.

Mixing The Best Oil For Your Skin

So – I’ve only been doing this for a week so some of this is just my faith in Crunchy Betty’s advise – if you haven’t read her blog, then click her link at the end because she’s fabulous. Here are some oils you can try:

  • Castor Oil – a necessary ingredient! This penetrates the deep layers of your skin, has anti-inflammatory and antibacterial properties and generally protects your skin like no other. If you aren’t familiar with my deep and abiding love of castor oil then read about castor oil here. According to Crunchy Betty it’s more on the drying side so better if you have normal to oily skin.
  • Jojoba Oil – this skin staple is great for all types but especially acne-prone skin.
  • Sweet Almond Oil – Great for all skin types, especially oily skin.
  • Olive Oil and Sunflower Seed Oil – Great for everyone!
  • Avocado Oil – Especially great for dry and aging skin.
  • Sesame Oil – Great for dry, sensitive skin.
  • Shea Oil – Perfect for sensitive, reactive skin.

Now the key is finding your best mix:

I’ve been using a 50/50 mix of castor oil and shea oil, because they’re both favorites of mine and my skin tends to be both oily and sensitive at the same time.

Crunchy Betty suggests working in thirds and she suggests

Oily skin – 2/3 castor oil and 1/3 carrier oil

Normal skin – equal parts castor oil and carrier oil

Dry skin – 1/3 castor oil and 2/3 carrier oil

Always the best idea is to experiment with your skin and see what your face loves.  Mix it up in small batches at first until you find the perfect thing for you.  Once you decide to mix a larger batch then we can start adding essential oils.  With essential oils a tiny bit (a few drops to a cup of oil) is enough so it’s too intense for the small trial batches.  Here are some essential oils to try (but I always go by smell as much as function):

  • Rose – Smells great and it’s been used for centuries to help smooth wrinkles and protect skin from the changes brought by age.
  • Frankincense – Brings deep healing to troubled skin – especially if there are deep skin issues like cystic acne or repeat infections.
  • Lavender – One of the most popular scents and it’s also antibacterial and anti-fungal so it’s great if there is surface acne.  If your acne follows your hormone cycle lavender isn’t the best choice because it can increase your estrogens. This is also rumored to even out your skin tone.
  • Peppermint – This lively and refreshing oil actually deep cleanses your pores and helps them to close and minimize a little bit so it’s great if you’re prone to blackheads. Tea Tree and Eucalyptus have similar effects.
  • Sandalwood – Nourishing and healing, especially for dry, chapped or raw skin.
  • Lemon – This oil is very drying to acne and blemishes and strongly anti-bacterial but it may make your skin more sensitive to sunlight if you leave it on (probably not a problem in your oil cleansing routine)
  • Myrrh – Strongly healing for rashes, eczema and seborrhea.

Now you have the tools – go forth and oil cleanse!  I can’t begin to tell you how excited I am about all of this and how happy I am to share it.  I’d love to hear what you think about it!

Also – I’ve got to share Crunchy Betty because she’s a new favorite for me!

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The Best Oil for Cooking? The Debate Rages On

Remember when butter was the thing your grandmother cooked everything in? Then butter was the enemy and margarine was king. Then, of course, someone figured out that margarine was killing you and you floundered around until the food network introduced you to extra virgin olive oil (EVOO in case you’re food network savvy).

The best oils for cooking

Olive oils from Turkey, Italy, Spain, and Greece

So the problem is, how do you know what to use? How do you know what is best for you? I’ll try to give you the most complete answer I can, but honestly a lot of days I feel like I’m not 100% sure of anything. I’ve had a ridiculous amount of nutritional education, along with chemistry (sorry – we’re going to have to get into chemistry too) but the truth is we’re still learning about how different oils and fats act with heat and also what they do in your body. So I’ll give you the best answer I have now, and I’ll keep updating as I find new and more complete information.

Here are the Things I Know For Sure:

  1. Don’t Overheat – All fats and oils become harmful if they are cooked at too high a temperature, but the temperature that they can withstand is different for every fat or oil.
  2. If It’s Smoking It’s Bad – Generally you know you’ve over heated an oil if it starts to smoke in the pan. The smoke forms when the oil starts to burn and change into something harmful. The temperature at which an oil begins to smoke is called it’s ‘smoke point’ and is a great way to evaluate it’s heat stability.
  3. More Solid is Usually More Heat Stable – Usually the more solid a fat or oil is at room temperature, the hotter you can cook it without it turning bad.
  4. Every Natural Oil Is a Mixture of Different Types of Fats – lard isn’t just one type of molecule, it’s many types of molecules so there is no fat that is 100% good or 100% bad. Every natural oil is mixed.
  5. Extra Refining Can Make Oils More Heat Stable -  I don’t like refining as a rule because often some of the nutritional value is refined out of the oil and the oil has to go through chemical processes to be refined, but if you’re planning on cooking at high temperatures a more refined oil can be a really good thing.

Smoke Points of Cooking Oils:

Unrefined Flaxseed, Safflower, Sunflower, Canola Oil: 225 *F, 107 *C
Unrefined Corn, Peanut, Soy and Walnut Oil: 320 *F, 160 *F
Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO): 320 *F, 160 *C
Butter, Extra Virgin Coconut Oil, Unrefined Sesame Oil: 350 *F, 177 *C
Lard: 370 *F, 182 *C
Macadamia Nut Oil: 390 *F, 199 *C
Refined Canola Oil, Low Acidity EVOO: 400 * F, 204 *C
Sesame Oil: 410 *F, 210 *C
Cotton Seed Oil, Grape Seed Oil, Virgin Olive Oil, Almond Oil: 420 *F, 216 *C
Hazelnut Oil: 430 *F, 221 *C
Peanut Oil, Sunflower Oil: 440 *F, 227 *C
Palm or Palm Kernel Oil, Refined Peanut, Safflower, Soy, High-Oleic Sunflower, Coconut Oil, : 450 *F, 232 *C
Extra Light Olive Oil: 468 *F, 242 *C
Ghee (Indian Refined Butter): 485 *F, 252 *C
Refined Soybean or Safflower Oil: 495 *F, 257 *C
Avocado Oil: 520 *F, 271 *C

So What is The Best Oil For Cooking?

Times like this I wish I had THE answer, not just an answer.  Sauteing or pan frying usually happens at temperatures around 500* F, which means a very heat stable oil like avocado oil, ghee or refined coconut oil is a good idea.  I love the flavor of butter and virgin or extra virgin olive oil, and virgin coconut oil but obviously those are only suitable for lower temperature cooking.  So the best solution to me is to keep a variety of oils handy.  I still use butter (organic) for baking, EVOO in salad dressings and dipping sauces, and a variety of nut and coconut oils for higher temperature cooking depending on what flavor I’m looking for.  Avocado oil I reserve for sauteing because it is stable at such a high temperature (and so wonderful for you).

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A Healthy Smile Keeps You Healthy Long Term

So, the thing everyone seems to want to talk about is their pearly whites.  People want bright, shiny white teeth that you can see from outer space.  Your gums are far less glamorous and hardly anyone asks me anything at all about their gum health, so I’m here to champion the gums because in terms of your overall body health, they’re WAY more important than their much more glamorous cousins, your teeth.

Your gums are one of the most common sites of chronic infection.  Gum disease and gingivitis sound like they shouldn’t be a big deal for your body but the truth is that they are behind many of the major health risks. If your gums are chronically infected then your body is always using precious resources to try to fight that infection. That means you have less of those resources – energy, nutrients and immunity – to use in other places.  Gum disease poses a very serious threat to your body and it increases the risk of:

  • Heart attack by as much as 25%
  • Preterm, low birth weight babies
  • Digestive disorders
  • Pancreatic cancer
  • Respiratory disease
  • Osteoporosis
  • Immune dysfunction
  • Uncontrolled diabetes (it doesn’t cause diabetes, but makes diabetes that is there much harder to control)
  • Stroke

All of that from gingivitis! It’s important to note that although it’s commonly called “gum disease” that it actually harms far more than your gums. The term periodontal disease is more accurate because that means disease around the teeth, but gum disease is just easier to say and more widely used.  This type of problem effects the gums, ligaments and bone. If something was attacking the tissue, ligaments and bone of your leg, for example, you’d do everything you could to stop it.  This is just a less noticeable place.  Still, gum disease is attacking the tissue, ligament and bone of your mouth – it’s no less important.

If you haven't tried tooth soap yet you just don't know what you're missing. My favorite flavors are ginger and fennel, but then, those are the only ones I've tried because I just can't bear to part with them.

Essentially the bacterial infections travel down into the spaces between your teeth and gums.  The more bacteria there are, and the longer they’re left to grow and breed, the further into your body they can travel.  From there they can infect the ligament holding the tooth into your jaw and travel into the bones of your face.  The more bacteria get between your teeth and gums, the more your gums are damaged and eaten away and pockets begin to form.  These pockets are great places for bacteria to hide out and so the process becomes more serious.

There are lots of contributing factors to gum disease – general health, genetics, age, lifestyle, stress, smoking, lack of dental care, etc… but by far the biggest and most changeable factor is your oral hygiene. The best news is that starting now with good oral hygiene can make a tremendous difference, even if you haven’t paid much attention to your teeth before now. In terms of your gum health, the best tool in addition to brushing and flossing would be a water-pik or oral irrigator of some kind.  These are used to shoot water between the gum and tooth to clean bacteria out of those pockets and help your body to heal.

Please keep in mind I’m not a dentist or dental specialist, but this seems to be a good place to start.  Check with your dentist for any fine-tuning that you may need for you. Also, when you brush your teeth, don’t forget to also gently brush your tongue and gums to get rid of bacteria there too.

Here’s my tooth-care schedule:
Breakfast: Floss and brush
Snack: I’d love to say I actually brush here, but usually I just use mouth rinse, swish (see below) or chew gum
Lunch: Brush
Snack: Same as the above snack
Dinner: Brush
Before bed: Floss, brush,  water-pik with plain water or water and mouthwash

It is most important to do a complete care in the morning and in the evening because lots of bacteria can build up overnight.  The rest of the day the more you can do, the better, but it’s hard to water-pik at work so realistically do what you can.  Anytime after you eat if you can take the time to add flossing into the routine, you should.  If you can’t take the time, like most people then brushing, using something like tooth swish or even chewing sugar free gum will help.

Being a natural product freak, I thought I’d share some of my favorites with you:

Here’s Dr. Tung’s Smart Floss – I honestly never thought I’d be excited about floss in any way because really it’s all the same, except it’s not.  This one is thicker than normal and stretches into a thick ribbon that gets hidden gunk out of there easily and it has the loveliest hint of cardamom flavor – sometimes it’s the simple things that make you happy… Thanks Amy Love for sharing this one with me!

Tooth brightener.  Because who doesn’t want a brighter smile? Just one or two uses a week. AWESOME!

Tooth soap.  This one defies explanation except to say that it’s soap, for your teeth.  I’m pretty sure once you start with this there is no going back to regular old toothpaste. It’s all natural, organic, good for teeth and gums and completely different from the usual routine!  And thanks Jenny for getting me hooked!

Tooth swish – for when you don’t have time to brush.  Another totally indescribable experience – it’s citrus-y, salty goodness that cleans and nourishes your teeth and gums.

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